Cry Havoc, and Let Slip the Linkspam
Sep. 29th, 2009 05:58 pmSelah March: More re: Lambda Lit versus the Breeders (Same post; different sites; different comments)
Towleroad: Lambda Literary Foundation Announces New Rules, Leadership
TeddyPig: Because Someone Asked
Seeking Avalon: On Isms & Idiots (Part 2)
Seeking Avalon: On Isms & Idiots (Part 3)
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Date: 2009-09-30 04:00 am (UTC)Want it back?
If so, I'll give it to you. (Or anyone else who wants to step up and nudge me out of the way.) If not, no, I won't change the tagline in the middle of a round of collections. Tempers are hot, and I'm not going to turn the comm into a fucking mood ring.
If I'm working alone, I'm working to my preferences. If I'm accountable to a group, which I'm willing to be, I'm happy to meet/discuss with them. I'm not, however, accountable to your particular biases.
I said at the start that I had strong & controversial opinions, and if people didn't think they'd be welcome, or the comm would suffer for them, I'd stay away. (Did I mention that a lot of them had to deal with sex? That sex is a religious matter to me, and a whole lot of people think I'm particularly wingnutty in that category? If not, I apologize, but there's certainly been plenty of time to see those tendencies in my journal.)
The offer to leave stands. But I'm not doing this work to try to match biases that aren't mine, no matter how popular--or even accurate--they are; I have more integrity than that.
My biases, my privileges, my status as several types of minority, my history, my hopes and fears, all go into what makes me willing and able to do this. I'm not willing to pretend to be someone else, nor to stand behind a comm I don't believe in.
I'm a member of the LGBT community; I have just as much right as you do to decide what is, and is not, harmful to us.
I suggest you start polling for people to take over for me.
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Date: 2009-09-30 04:43 am (UTC)*I'm not saying you are. I don't know what prompted this.
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Date: 2009-09-30 04:45 am (UTC)Do you always play the martyr so much?
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Date: 2009-09-30 05:07 am (UTC)I'm doing something I more-or-less enjoy. I thought it was useful to other people, in the context of the Linkspam comm. If it's not, I'm willing to stop.
But telling me, "I don't like some of what you're doing, but you should keep doing it, only change the parts I don't like," isn't going to work.
Should you wish to convince me of my errors, you're doing it wrong.
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Date: 2009-09-30 05:11 am (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2009-10-01 02:14 am (UTC)Seriously: Where are the links that
Because unless there is some fashion in which that's actually happening, what this looks like, to someone (like me) who hasn't been following the argument and has no formed opinion, is that you're pretty much saying that linkspam can't be moderated by someone who disagrees with you even if that disagreement does not, in fact, affect their work as linkspam moderator, and what the hell.